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One of the biggest hurdles to talking dirty is confusion. You may ask yourself “What does my partner want” or maybe you ask yourself “Should I Know How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend?” and than you might want to know what is going too far, and what isn’t going far enough? How do you even know that he will embrace your naughty vixen at all? If he’s dropped hints or talked dirty to you in bed, you’ve got a clue that he wants you to get a little raunchier. But for the beginner who isn’t sure where to go from here, the whole idea of dirty talk can be intimidating.

Today I want to share something very quick with you. Something that will send love roaring back into your life and make your man or any man you desire begin to see you as the One.You see, men are also affected by words. Here are The Love Words which can penetrate a man’s heart and make him completely fall head over heels in love. 

It doesn’t matter if he’s been acting cold and distant to you OR even told you he’s no longer interested in you. These words will break his heart and make him BEG to be in your life again.

So Basically You Are Asking How To Talk Dirty To A Guy ?

Imagine being able to drive your man wild with the words you use and he is putty in your hands but you would not be reading this if that was already happening, so what I always ask is what is stopping you dirty talking to a guy ? For most women its


  • Fear of rejection
  • Fear of what to say
  • Fear that what you say might not work


Let me tell you us guys are pretty simple creatures we love to be painted a picture, we are by design visual beings, that’s your first clue, so if you want to know how to talk dirty to a guy over text or just generally want to know how to talk dirty , be it a long term relationship or just somebody new in your life all you have to know is paint the picture in our minds


But how do you know what to say…When To Say It…And feel good about it

Its Simple.

Well basically don’t sweat it , men are pretty forgiving creatures I should know I am one, and at the end of the day we want to feel.

We are sexy and your dream man- So dirty talking makes this point clear;

We love to be touched and told and how good we feel-Dirty talking makes this point clear;

how to talk dirty

“the master or the slave..”

It’s not just about how you say it, when you say it adding your body language to go with it. It’s also about what you say. Some men likes dirty sentences like “lick me babe, suck my juices, come down on me now” where is other men want to hear more about their actual penetration while describing what he’s doing to you “your cock is so hard and big, ah just pound me, harder, yes like that, deep”. It’s as if it’s a little bit of a power struggle where some men wants to be the leader and the so called dominating male, where’s in some other cases or depending on the man in question the girl steps up and dominates him, demanding him to ‘do her’ or do things to her as if he was her owned subject and slave. It’s all games, pretend and playful and your mood, the surrounding settings and your personality determines what suit you as an individual couple or if your planning on a casual one night fling with a man.

“down to the nitty gritty”

To give you plenty of ideas on what exactly to say we have put together a little list of different sentences, some soft and innocent and some hard core and very dirty. Again, if your shy and don’t feel comfortable saying some of these, remember you don’t have too. Just play around with the words and use what suits you, you’ll be surprised how excited it will make him once you get started. To warm up, allow yourself to practice in front of the mirror, if you can’t say it so yourself it’s going to be hard saying it to him.

“Cater to his fantasies”

Dirty talk can range from a sexy story that caters to his fantasies. Ask yourself; what does he like to hear? If your shy then start slow, start verbalizing what you feel.

examples of dirty talk

“What ticks his boxes”

You know guys love it. You know it's a fabulous way to turn your man on both in and out of the bedroom.. Guys do tend to have different preferences and it’s all about getting to know what ticks his boxes and what works for him. As for the basics let’s get started with some examples that will help you get started playing and having fun with him and of course together as a couple.

“A tender whisper, it’s how you say it”

The most excitement will come not only while you say a certain word but also how you say it. Make sure that you both are in a relaxing mood and that there is nothing that can disturb you like a cellphone suddenly ringing or having the TV on. Light some candles and have him sitting down or perhaps lead him into the bedroom. As a good start you can whisper these examples with a sexy playful voice.

“I love the way you kiss me, kiss me on the neck” (agree with how nice it feels when he kisses you)

“Yes babe, keep kissing me, slow, just like that” Describe how it feels, how aroused you get, how lovely it feels and keep him excited about pleasuring you. It’s a confidence thing, if he feels like his bringing you excitement he will keep kissing you.

“Get him closer”

Make him curious about you. Create a space between you and say: “ Want to see what I want, want to feel my body, come closer”. Invite him with a smile and a soft touch. Play with his clothes but don’t move to quickly, we want to keep the suspension. As he sits next to you, grab his hair, work your way down to his shoulders, massage gently and then whisper “tell me what you want..”. Instead of him actually reciting what he wants change the subject, make him vary that you are in the lead and that you are calling the shots. Then say “just keep looking at me, my breasts, my mouth, I love when you look at me like that”. Always whisper or talk gently so that it doesn’t remind him of a real conversation. Remember that this is a playful act, something that is a little out of the ordinary and special.

“I’m going to suck you like a lollipop”

A fun way to make him extra excited is if you now step it up. Nothing kills the mood as to long and dreary intros. He is on your toes, he’s excited and want to move forward so lets be more rough, more sexy and use bigger words. Many women feel odd saying things like “fuck”, “suck” but together with the safety with your partner it should be fun and allow him to smile a little and don’t be to serious, in fact it’s more enjoyable if you relax. See it like a movie, a character that your playing if it’s hard to take those words in your mouth. “Come over here and I’ll ride you hard”. That's how to talk dirty with your man as an example and the rest can of course be altered and made up just as you enjoy each other.

How to talk dirty to a guy examples

I’m about to give you a preview of things to come, if you’re up for it, here’s a list of 66 dirty talk phrases. If you don’t know where to start, then this is for you! Below you’ll find many examples of dirty talk to use in the bedroom, use them as they are or build upon them to create your own. Enjoy!

  1. I want you to take me to heaven
  2. I want your hands all over my body
  3. I can’t wait to feel your tongue on me
  4. Your touch makes me so horny
  5. I want it so bad
  6. Your piece is sooo big
  7. I can’t wait to feel you inside me
  8. Kiss me there…
  9. That feels good
  10. More of that…
  11. Don’t stop!
  12. Your touch makes me so hot I want to touch myself
  13. My body ached the second you walked in the door
  14. I get so wet thinking about you
  15. I need you now!
  16. Take me this second! I won’t want any longer!
  17. Do me right now!
  18. You are so hot, I want to lick you
  19. I’m your sex slave. Do what you want with me.
  20. I’m a bad girl, spank me!
  21. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about your shlong/dick/cock/etc. all day.
  22. I go crazy inside when you look at me like that
  23. Let’s break the bed tonight.
  24. I want you to bend me over your knee and spank me like the bad girl.
  25. This is going to be the greatest night of your life
  26. Getting ready for the best sex you’ve ever had
  27. Can you handle what I’m about to do to you?…
  28. I like when I have you in my mouth…
  29. Do you like that?
  30. Do you like when I do this?
  31. Will you fuck me?
  32. Yeah baby, fuck that pussy!
  33. Do it harder!
  34. Give me more!
  35. Give it to me like that…
  36. You can have it like that..
  37. You’re so big, so hot, so hard…
  38. Give me a piece of you now!
  39. Take me now!
  40. Let me lick more…
  41. I feel you cumming…
  42. It’s soo big..
  43. Say my name…
  44. Oh god yes…
  45. Yes, Yes, YES!!!
  46. Your cock feels so good inside me
  47. I am so wet…
  48. It feels soo good.
  49. Oh my gosh, you are so hard.
  50. I loved the things you did to me last night’
  51. I love the way your kisses taste…
  52. I love the way you sound when you do that thing you do
  53. I love the face you make when you orgasm…
  54. How beautiful you are, my darling!
  55. Oh you are so beautiful.
  56. I’m so horny for you…
  57. I want to kiss every inch of your body tonight…
  58. I’m going to give you more pleasure than you could even imagine…
  59. Get ready for great sex…
  60. Push it harder…harder…
  61. I’ve never had a lover like you before…
  62. You’re the best I’ve ever had…
  63. Do it to me the way you always do…
  64. You must have magic hands/lips because you’re doing something special…
  65. I want your body close to mine so you can feel my shivers…
  66. Get off when I do…

Here are some more dirty things to say

There is plenty more how to talk dirty to a guy examples but these ones are perfect to tweak a little and adjust to what your okay and happy saying, it’s suppose to be a bit dirty so don’t leave out too much, try him out..Whisper one of these sentences in his ear tonight..

Guys like to hear you talk about how big their penis is, reassure them that its big/ huge they will love you for it. (even if its not true)

Here is my top favorite that I use with my husband every night:

“If you stuck your dick in my mouth I’m going to suck it so hard”

“I wanna feel your come all over my face, dripping down my throat then I’m gonna lick you and suck your dick”.

“Don’t you just want to rail me, make love to me now, fuck me now” (you’ll choose if you want to just say make love if that’s more comfortable to start with)

“Don’t you just want to put your cock between my breasts, if your good I’ll let you stick it in my ass”

“I am so horny I just want you to fuck me right now”

“I want to motorboat my tits around your dick, I want to feel your throbbing cock between my thighs and let you come inside me baby”

“slap my ass, i have been a bad girl”

“your cock feels so big inside me tonight”

“I’m your little dirty whore” , ” deal to me”

” cum over my breasts”

” I want to feel your cock inside me”

Are You Tired Of...

  • Not knowing any dirty talk phrases?
  • A mechanical and boring sex life?
  • Your man's predictability ruining the mood... and your evening?
  • Hearing the same old monotonous grunts during your love session?
  • Not being able to orgasm like you used to?
  • Letting your man settle for a mediocre sex life?

Why He NEEDS You To Learn How To Talk Dirty...

Dirty talk phrases directly stroke the male ego:

Talking dirty riles up the positive sides of that ego, in which he identifies with his masculine role as a man, and can highly energize him through triggering his internal “lust mechanisms” to have him swooning over you every chance he can get.

Dirty Talk evoke a man’s fantasy:

Talking dirty is your tool to grasp a man’s fantasy in a way that pulls back all of his sexual attention on you, and you alone. You can be his muse and essentially guide him into unparalleled, self generated bliss, if you know what “secret psychology” is going on behind the scenes.

Dirty talk lines create an unspoken bond:

A lot of women are intimidated by the idea of talking dirty because she doesn’t know what to say, but the fact of the matter is by taking that risk (and trusting him with her true sexual self-expression) she is communicating that she is willing to open to him completely. This delicate gesture triggers gratitude and reciprocity in him to begin to open up more himself.

The language of desire will explain all you need to know to captivate your man and make him do whatever you want...

... And I really mean "WHATEVER YOU WANT"!

Dirty Talk is quite possibly the healthiest thing you can do for any relationship. Studies have shown that Talking Dirty helps to improve love making, increases intimacy, drives desire and can make you an all around more confident person.

If you want all these things in your life then keep reading. The Language of Desire by Felicity Keith teaches you how to dirty talk, improve love making, gain confidence and drive your man crazy with desire.

Did you know that all men crave a woman who can talk dirty to them? Whether he tells you so or not he will be excited to hear you talk dirty in the right way. I say "the right way" because talking dirty isn't just about throwing around some four letter words and seeing what happens. Dirty talk, done wrong is not sexy at all and can most often be a turn off. With The Ultimate Guide To Talking Dirty I'll tell you exactly how to do it the right way!!!

Here is your first tip…..

Talking Dirty Tip #1

First of all, dirty talk doesn't have to be dirty. You can show your pleasure - and rev up his engine to redline - with just sounds.

When you moan in pleasure, it tells him that he's doing something right. When you groan as he enters you, you're telling him how much you like the way he feels inside of you. The sounds you make, whether it be groaning or screaming or simply heavy breathing, will tell him volumes about how you feel and what you want him to do.

Why Talk Dirty...

You might want to learn how to talk dirty because your man has expressed an interest in it or maybe you want to spice up your sex life some or maybe you are just curious as to how to talk dirty.

Whatever the reason may be it seem that from the time we're children we are taught that dirty words are bad. Saying naughty and dirty things is not something good girls and boys do...or do they? Getting over this taboo that has been driven into us since childhood is both good for our sex lives and exciting. It's like making love again for the first time and my guide tells you exactly how to do it!

Why Do Men Love Dirty Talk?

Men love dirty talk because it adds spice and intimacy into their romance. Most men don't want a woman who is timid and shy in the bed. Talking dirty either before or during sex has nothing but positive effects. Dirty talk before sex gets your man excited and builds anticipation for things to come. When you learn how to talk dirty in bed it will make your man feel like he is fulfilling your needs and in return it will get him revved up and extend the love making process.

You'll Need All The Help You Can Get...

If you truly want to learn how to talk dirty then you need some help. You definitely do not want to rush into it and say the wrong thing at the wrong time. This is the number one mistake that women make who want to learn how to talk dirty. Talking dirty isn't about just blurting out nasty phrases during sex. It is all about saying the right thing at the right time.

With the help of my talking dirty guide you will learn what to say, when to say it, where to say it and how to say it. Knowing this information before the first dirty thought even rolls off your lips is a major bonus. If you say the wrong thing your man might think you are trying to hard, you could get embarrassed or even worse yet, lose the confidence you have built up.

Talking Dirty Tip #2

Dirty talk doesn't always have to be face to face. Some of the most naughtiest things can be said on the phone, via email or in a hand written letter. Letters are great for this and can be placed in just the right spots. You can find more about different ways to drive your man crazy .

Did you know that talking dirty on the phone is a big business? Let's face it; people are paying good money for it all the time. Out of all of the places that there are to talk dirty to your man, doing it on the phone has got to be one of the easiest. It's always easier to do something when there is no face to face contact. Release any inhibitions that you may be facing and get down to business with your man. Tell him that you are touching yourself, which is sure to get his motor going.

Give him a few moans and a couple of whispers and remember that delivery is everything. The more that he feeds into it, the more that you will feel comfortable with it and allow yourself to continue on in a natural manner. When it comes to referring to breasts and penises, use the words that you find most comfortable to you. There are a lot to choose from that's for sure!

How To Captivate Your Man & Make Him Love You

As you learn to talk dirty, it opens up a whole new world of possibility. You will probably learn things about your partner that you never imagined, and it's a sure bet he's going to learn quite a bit about you! Your willingness to talk dirty to him shows him how much you want him, and that leads to enhanced intimacy between the two of you. The closer you feel to your partner, the better your sex life will be.

...You don't have to be a slut to learn dirty talk phrases...

GIRLS: Discover the REAL Secrets of Dirty Talk Phrases Using Your Tongue (Hint - It's NOT What You Think...)

Once you get things going with your man, slipping in a bit of dirty talk will do wonders for your sex life. You may find that it becomes a regular part of your sex play soon .


You cannot always be near the person your love, but if you can come up with some dirty text messages to send to your boyfriend, you will make him want you no matter how far apart you two are. Once he reads your text, he will start fantasizing immediately about you and the things he would like to do to you. Sending dirty texts can be an excellent way of maintaining the passion in your relationship even when you are apart. You just have to know how to choose your words, so that your text will trigger your man’s desire.

Today, many couples are going through periods of separation. Your boyfriend might have to go to another city on a business trip, might be in the army or have other job that implies traveling a lot. When you cannot be together with him, it’s difficult to keep the passion alive. One way of sharing intimate moments with the person you love even when he is far away is creating dirty texts to send to your boyfriend.

Unfortunately, not all of us are experts in dirty talk. With text messages, it’s extremely difficult to know the reaction they cause. Because you are not face to face, you cannot know if your boyfriend likes it or not, or if it makes him want you or laugh at you. Even more experienced dirty talkers have difficulties when it comes to writing dirty texts, because so many of the usual things are missing: the touches, the gaze, the inflexions in the voice, the moaning, and all the body language. You cannot immediately find out the effect your texts had on your partner, and this is one of the most significant reasons that make creating dirty texts difficult.

What makes a good dirty text and what makes a lousy one? How can you come up with different dirty texts to send to your boyfriend every time? Creating smart dirty texts needs practice, but there are a few tips you could follow to make sure your message will blow your boyfriend’s mind.

Tips on writing dirty text messages to send to your boyfriend

  1. Use the words he wants to hear

Before writing a message, you should make sure you use the words your boyfriend likes to hear. Different people have different preferences and fantasies, so you shouldn’t use some words just because your ex boyfriend loved them. Do some research and find out what your boyfriend likes and what he doesn’t, and then use your imagination to create the most exciting texts.

  1. Be descriptive

Writing texts is restrictive, because you cannot communicate with your boyfriend like you usually do. That is why you have to make your texts as explicit as possible. You have to say exactly what you want to do to your boyfriend, and how, or what you want him to do to you. When you are creating dirty texts to send to your boyfriend, imagine you are with him. Describe everything: the sensations, the taste and the smells. This way, your boyfriend will have no problem picturing everything, and fantasizing about it. The more you get into details, the more you trigger your partner’s desire.

  1. Be creative

Receiving dirty texts can be terribly exciting. However, when the texts keep repeating themselves, there is a great chance the initial excitement will drop. Don’t irritate your boyfriend with the same texts, even if you assume he likes them. Try something different every time and surprise him.

Where to find examples of dirty texts to send to your boyfriend

It’s not easy to write different dirty texts every time. There are times when you just can’t find the right words or some new ideas. Even the most creative persons experience such moments. If you want to diversify your dirty language and find some new examples of dirty texts, check out The Language of Desire by Felicity Keith. It has a lot of ideas you can use when having phone sex or writing dirty messages to you boyfriend.