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How To Talk Dirty For Beginners ? This question was often asked by most of married women. When you are not used to talk dirty, you will feel awkward when trying to do it for the first time. You will feel like you are becoming a different person, and as a result, you might not feel confident in what you are doing. You might end up making a fool of yourself if you don’t know what you are doing. When talking dirty, it is important for you to create a good impression about yourself, so that your partner will listen to what you are saying and respond to it.

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If you can get past the first barriers, it will be easier and easier for you to do it the second time. It’s okay to make mistakes at first, but you have to learn from your mistakes fast and fix it as soon as possible. Otherwise, it will be very difficult for you to master the art of dirty talking with your partner. Improvements are important to make you become better than your last performance, and the more you are successful with your dirty talk, the more you will succeed in bed. That’s for sure.

 

Here are the 7 best tips for beginners on how to talk dirty for the first time:

 

  1. Get Rid Of The Stereotypes

 

This is the first step that you need to take before you talk dirty to your partner. It’s actually the stereotype that makes people afraid to do this. Many people associate talking dirty with being a bad person that only cares about their lust. They are being labeled as a slut, bitch, dirty man, and so on. If you still think that talking dirty will have a bad effect on your good reputation, then you have to eliminate this stereotype from your mind. No, talking dirty will not give you any bad effect if you simply do it at an appropriate time.

 

Talking about things related to sex is actually more enjoyable that talking about mundane things with your partner. It can help you to increase your partner’s libido, and it makes you want to follow it with some real actions. It is a good way to create the right mood before you make love with your partner, which can give a significant impact on the sexual satisfaction that your partner will get from you. Sex is actually not just about sex. It involves caressing not only your partner’s body, but their mind as well. With dirty talk, your partner will have a richer sexual experience with you, and the more you get creative with your dirty talk, the more your sexual activities will become exciting for both you and your partner.

 

To get rid of the stereotypes surrounding dirty talk, here are the things you should do:

 

  • Think of dirty talk as something good instead of something bad, since it helps you get closer to your partner.
  • Understand that dirty talk will not damage your reputation in any way, provided that you are doing it at an appropriate time.
  • Know that dirty talk can help to make your sexual experience richer and more enjoyable for you and your partner.
  • Understand that dirty talk can make you look sexier and more charming for your partner, and it is more exciting than talking about mundane things.
  • Use dirty talk to create the mood for sex and be creative about it.

 

  1. Make Mistakes And Improve On Your Performance

 

You can’t expect yourself to be a master in dirty talk in just your first attempt. People make mistakes on everything, so you bound to make mistakes when you try to talk dirty for the first time too. Perhaps, you will make your partner upset with it and consider you strange. That’s a normal reaction, since you haven’t done it before. But, if you keep on trying, you will become better at starting a dirty conversation with your partner, or even with anyone that you just meet for the first time. It’s a great tool for seduction, and if you know how to use it properly, you can seduce almost anyone with it.

 

Remember that people also have some kind of barriers when it comes to dirty conversations. Sometimes, if you go too far in your dirty talk, you will end up making them angry or disappointed with your act. So, you should always observe these boundaries and ensure that you don’t cross it without knowing. These mistakes are common when you start your dirty talk for the first time, and the point is not to quit immediately after you make a mistake. Instead, you have to acknowledge your mistake and keep improving your performance. Don’t make the same mistake twice.

 

Find what works and what doesn’t work for your partner. Sometimes, your partner will love certain topics, and dislike others. Your partner may like certain dirty talk styles that you have, and dislike the others. So, when you spot that you are making a mistake, acknowledge it and remember about it. Then, never make the same mistake again and keep finding what works best to keep the dirty talk going.

 

Here are some tips you should do to improve your dirty talk performance:

 

  • Just come with your dirty talk ideas freely without being afraid of making mistakes.
  • When you make a mistake in your dirty talk, simply acknowledge your mistakes and never make the same mistake twice.
  • Keep improving your way to start and maintain a dirty conversation with your partner by fixing your mistakes along the way.
  • Find what works and what doesn’t work for your partner and focus only on giving the dirty talk style that they like.
  • Once you made a mistake, don’t be afraid to try another dirty talk trick on your partner or someone else.

 

Related article:  7 Tips You Shouldn’t Miss-Talk Dirty Without Embarrassment 

 

  1. Be The Leader In The Dirty Conversation

 

Sometimes, achieving a success in your dirty talk conversation is all about having the courage to lead the conversation. If you cannot lead the conversation, then the dirty talk cannot go anywhere. You cannot expect your partner to lead the dirty conversation, especially if it feels awkward for them to do so. Thus, what you need to do is keep going in your conversation and make your partner follow your game. It will be more exciting for your partner to follow you instead of thinking about what they need to say next.

 

Dirty conversation, like any conversation, is all about flow. If you can maintain the flow of the conversation, then you can successfully impress your partner and make the conversation satisfying for both of you. But, when you block the flow, stopping in the middle of the conversation without knowing what to say next, then your partner will feel confused about it. Many people are afraid to move forward in their dirty conversation, so this is what you need to handle in your conversation.

 

The first thing that you need to do is to collect your courage to move forward in the conversation. Once the conversation becomes more and more interesting, your partner will expect you to lead them in the conversation. In fact, they will be curious to hear about what kind of dirty talk that you will say to them. So, it is the time for you to fill the holes in the mind by giving up surprises after surprises in your dirty talk. When you lead, your partner will follow.

 

Here are some tips to be the leader in your dirty conversation:

 

  • Don’t be afraid to come up with new ideas in your dirty talk, since your partner will anticipate it.
  • Don’t be hesitant to move forward in your dirty conversation.
  • Your job is to lead the conversation. So, don’t expect your partner to do that.
  • Don’t let silence fills the gap of your dirty conversation with your partner. It is better for you to continue with your dirty talk despite your hesitation.
  • You can lead the conversation further by touching your partner and whispering to them your dirty words. This can help to heat up the conversation and make your partner more interested in it.
  • Give your partner some surprises in your dirty talk, and don’t talk about the same thing over and over again.

 

  1. Whisper And Straight Talk

 

Now, there is a really good trick to boost the effectiveness of your dirty talk. It’s called whispering. Instead of talking about dirty things out loud with your partner, you lower your voice, and whisper it to your partner instead. What this will do is that it will immediately create romantic feelings around you, and of course, your partner will be able to feel your sexiness as well. Whispering to your partner, with your sexy voice, right into their ear, is the sweetest and most romantic thing that you can do with your dirty talk. It turns your partner on, and of course, make them want to touch you more.

 

Another thing that you need to know is straight talk. When you talk dirty with your partner, make sure that you don’t try to conceal your words or the meaning of your words from them. You need to simply talk straight to your partner without any hesitation. In fact, if you hesitate, then it will ruin your dirty conversation and kill the mood immediately. Don’t be afraid to tell your partner about sexual things, since you are just talking with them in private. Don’t be afraid to make sure that your partner understands what you mean in your dirty talk.

 

This is something that you have to remember all the time. Maintaining a good dirty talk conversation is not difficult if you can use these simple tricks. When you’ve talked to your partner out loud too much, it’s time for you to whisper to them. When you’ve talked about sexual things in a difficult-to-understand way, it’s time for you to talk about it straight out. It means that you don’t need to worry to simply say things as it is.

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Here are some tips about whisper and straight talk in your dirty conversation:

 

  • Alternate between talking out loud and whispering to your partner, since it will give good variations in your dirty talk.
  • Don’t make your partner feel confused about what you are talking about. So, make sure that you are having a straight talk with your partner.
  • While whispering to your partner, be sure to show your charm and sexiness in your voice, since it will help to build the romantic mood in the conversation.
  • Whispering and touching your partner at the same time can turn them on, and it will be good for you to move forward to the next step, which is to seduce your partner.

 

  1. Follow It With Some Actions

 

Just talking about things related to sex is not interesting if you keep doing that without following it with some real actions. What does it mean? It means that talking about sex is good, but in the long run, it should be used as the first step in your seduction game. Let your dirty talk be the first step for you to have real sex with your partner. Talking dirty with your partner all the time can indeed create a romantic feeling between you and your partner, but that feeling can easily disappear if you don’t know when to take the next step.

 

So, what you need to do is to follow your dirty talk with some actions, which is to seduce your partner. Always accompany your dirty talk with touching and caressing your partner, making sure that they are turned on in what you are doing. The dirty conversation that you are doing with your partner should get you closer to your partner, and become intimate with them. Your partner should not only feel your words in their heart, but they need to also feel your touch in their skin. They should also feel your kisses and love.

 

Talking dirty should be your way to get your partner’s heart and make them fall in love with you. You have to make them feel crazy about you, and want to be with you all day. You should be able to tease your partner with your dirty talk, as well as increase their libido at the same time with your touches and kisses. That’s why you shouldn’t rely on your dirty talk alone, but you should also follow your dirty conversation with some real actions.

 

Here are some tips to follow your dirty talk with some actions:

 

  • Impress your partner with your dirty talk, and while you are doing that, follow it with some real actions, primarily touching and kissing your partner.
  • Don’t be afraid to create a physical contact with your partner.
  • Once the dirty talk escalates into seduction, your partner will expect you to come to them, make the kisses, and have real sex with you.
  • Always follow your dirty conversation with physical actions, but keep on observing your partner’s reactions while doing that.
  • Only go with your next move if you receive positive signals from your partner.

 

  1. Do It As Often As Possible

 

If you are a beginner in dirty talk, it means that you still have plenty of things to learn. Mastering the art of dirty talking is not something that you can do in a day or a few weeks. You need to practice this constantly if you want to master the art of dirty talking. Thus, it is very important for you to do it as often as possible. Don’t wait to do it later on your partner’s birthday. Don’t wait until Valentine’s Day just to start talking dirty with your partner. You have to set yourself to make mistakes a lot in your dirty talk, and ensure that you learn from your own mistakes.

 

So, if you want to become proficient in dirty talk, make sure to do it as often as possible with your partner. It is better to do it every day, or even every time you meet your partner. Or, even when your partner is away from you, you can call them and start the dirty conversation via phone or chat. You need to be willing to make the effort to start the conversation with your partner.

 

The problem with many people is that they are afraid to make dirty talk a part of their romantic life with their partner. This is why their romantic life becomes dull and boring, and their partner will then choose to cheat with other people. It’s simply because they cannot get the satisfaction from their partner, and because their partner is never willing to take the step to keep their romantic feeling strong. So, it’s important for you to make the dirty talk your second nature. You need to do it often, and you have to do it for the good of your relationship.

 

Here are some tips to do dirty talk as often as possible:

 

  • Don’t be afraid to start the dirty conversation anytime.
  • Even when your partner is away, you can still call them and start the dirty conversation via the phone or chat messages.
  • The more you do the dirty talk, the more you will recognize what works and what doesn’t work.
  • It is good to make mistakes in your dirty conversation, and then learn from your own mistakes to improve the way you do it later.
  • Dirty talking can help you to keep the romantic feeling going strong between you and your partner, so it will do no harm if you do it as often as possible with your partner.

 

  1. Be Playful With Your Partner

 

This is the last tip for the beginners to start their dirty conversation for the first time. You have to be playful with your partner, not taking things too seriously while you do that. In dirty conversation, it is important to keep your partner feels the fun in the talk itself. If you are too serious in your talk, then your partner will feel afraid of you. Thus, when your partner feels that you are a creepy person, then it is not possible for you to take the next step.

 

So, before you do all the dirty talk, be sure to relax your mind and not let it become too much stressed before you actually do it. It is important to think that your dirty conversation is just a talk with your partner that you do for fun. Whether your partner will enjoy it or not, it will be up to your partner later. But, what you need to do is to let the dirty talk flow smoothly in your conversation. Don’t think too much about whether your partner will like what you say or not. Just say it.

 

Dirty talking is all about intuition. You simply say what is on your mind, and observe the reactions of your partner later. You simply express what is on your head and let your partner know about your dirty mind. You don’t need to worry about what your partner thinks about you if you talk about dirty things with them. We are all animals inside, so we have our fair shares of dirty things in our mind. So, it’s good to be playful with your partner in your dirty conversation.

 

Here are some tips to be playful with your partner in your dirty talk:

 

  • Relax your mind before starting your dirty conversation. You don’t want to be too stressful when you talk dirty with your partner.
  • Don’t think about what your partner will think of you when you say about dirty things with them.
  • Use jokes deliberately and freely to spice up your dirty talk and make it more interesting.
  • Say what’s on your head without hesitation to keep the smooth flow of your dirty conversation.
  • Always add the fun factor in your dirty talk, treating your dirty conversation just as a playful conversation with your partner.