One of the biggest hurdles to talking dirty is confusion. You may ask yourself “What does my partner want” or maybe you ask yourself “Should I Know How To Talk Dirty To My Boyfriend?” and than you might want to know what is going too far, and what isn’t going far enough? How do you even know that he will embrace your naughty vixen at all? If he’s dropped hints or talked dirty to you in bed, you’ve got a clue that he wants you to get a little raunchier. But for the beginner who isn’t sure where to go from here, the whole idea of dirty talk can be intimidating.
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So Basically You Are Asking How To Talk Dirty To A Guy ?
Imagine being able to drive your man wild with the words you use and he is putty in your hands but you would not be reading this if that was already happening, so what I always ask is what is stopping you dirty talking to a guy ? For most women its
THE three FEARS
- Fear of rejection
- Fear of what to say
- Fear that what you say might not work
HOW TO TALK DIRTY TO YOUR MAN
Let me tell you us guys are pretty simple creatures we love to be painted a picture, we are by design visual beings, that’s your first clue, so if you want to know how to talk dirty to a guy over text or just generally want to know how to talk dirty , be it a long term relationship or just somebody new in your life all you have to know is paint the picture in our minds
AND HE WILL BE YOURS FOR EVER...
But how do you know what to say…When To Say It…And feel good about it
Well basically don’t sweat it , men are pretty forgiving creatures I should know I am one, and at the end of the day we want to feel.
We are sexy and your dream man- So dirty talking makes this point clear;
We love to be touched and told and how good we feel-Dirty talking makes this point clear;
“the master or the slave..”
It’s not just about how you say it, when you say it adding your body language to go with it. It’s also about what you say. Some men likes dirty sentences like “lick me babe, suck my juices, come down on me now” where is other men want to hear more about their actual penetration while describing what he’s doing to you “your cock is so hard and big, ah just pound me, harder, yes like that, deep”. It’s as if it’s a little bit of a power struggle where some men wants to be the leader and the so called dominating male, where’s in some other cases or depending on the man in question the girl steps up and dominates him, demanding him to ‘do her’ or do things to her as if he was her owned subject and slave. It’s all games, pretend and playful and your mood, the surrounding settings and your personality determines what suit you as an individual couple or if your planning on a casual one night fling with a man.
“down to the nitty gritty”
To give you plenty of ideas on what exactly to say we have put together a little list of different sentences, some soft and innocent and some hard core and very dirty. Again, if your shy and don’t feel comfortable saying some of these, remember you don’t have too. Just play around with the words and use what suits you, you’ll be surprised how excited it will make him once you get started. To warm up, allow yourself to practice in front of the mirror, if you can’t say it so yourself it’s going to be hard saying it to him.
“Cater to his fantasies”
Dirty talk can range from a sexy story that caters to his fantasies. Ask yourself; what does he like to hear? If your shy then start slow, start verbalizing what you feel.
“What ticks his boxes”
You know guys love it. You know it's a fabulous way to turn your man on both in and out of the bedroom.. Guys do tend to have different preferences and it’s all about getting to know what ticks his boxes and what works for him. As for the basics let’s get started with some examples that will help you get started playing and having fun with him and of course together as a couple.
“A tender whisper, it’s how you say it”
The most excitement will come not only while you say a certain word but also how you say it. Make sure that you both are in a relaxing mood and that there is nothing that can disturb you like a cellphone suddenly ringing or having the TV on. Light some candles and have him sitting down or perhaps lead him into the bedroom. As a good start you can whisper these examples with a sexy playful voice.
“I love the way you kiss me, kiss me on the neck” (agree with how nice it feels when he kisses you)
“Yes babe, keep kissing me, slow, just like that” Describe how it feels, how aroused you get, how lovely it feels and keep him excited about pleasuring you. It’s a confidence thing, if he feels like his bringing you excitement he will keep kissing you.
“Get him closer”
Make him curious about you. Create a space between you and say: “ Want to see what I want, want to feel my body, come closer”. Invite him with a smile and a soft touch. Play with his clothes but don’t move to quickly, we want to keep the suspension. As he sits next to you, grab his hair, work your way down to his shoulders, massage gently and then whisper “tell me what you want..”. Instead of him actually reciting what he wants change the subject, make him vary that you are in the lead and that you are calling the shots. Then say “just keep looking at me, my breasts, my mouth, I love when you look at me like that”. Always whisper or talk gently so that it doesn’t remind him of a real conversation. Remember that this is a playful act, something that is a little out of the ordinary and special.
“I’m going to suck you like a lollipop”
A fun way to make him extra excited is if you now step it up. Nothing kills the mood as to long and dreary intros. He is on your toes, he’s excited and want to move forward so lets be more rough, more sexy and use bigger words. Many women feel odd saying things like “fuck”, “suck” but together with the safety with your partner it should be fun and allow him to smile a little and don’t be to serious, in fact it’s more enjoyable if you relax. See it like a movie, a character that your playing if it’s hard to take those words in your mouth. “Come over here and I’ll ride you hard”. That's how to talk dirty with your man as an example and the rest can of course be altered and made up just as you enjoy each other.
How to talk dirty to a guy examples
I’m about to give you a preview of things to come, if you’re up for it, here’s a list of 66 dirty talk phrases. If you don’t know where to start, then this is for you! Below you’ll find many examples of dirty talk to use in the bedroom, use them as they are or build upon them to create your own. Enjoy!
- I want you to take me to heaven
- I want your hands all over my body
- I can’t wait to feel your tongue on me
- Your touch makes me so horny
- I want it so bad
- Your piece is sooo big
- I can’t wait to feel you inside me
- Kiss me there…
- That feels good
- More of that…
- Don’t stop!
- Your touch makes me so hot I want to touch myself
- My body ached the second you walked in the door
- I get so wet thinking about you
- I need you now!
- Take me this second! I won’t want any longer!
- Do me right now!
- You are so hot, I want to lick you
- I’m your sex slave. Do what you want with me.
- I’m a bad girl, spank me!
- I haven’t been able to stop thinking about your shlong/dick/cock/etc. all day.
- I go crazy inside when you look at me like that
- Let’s break the bed tonight.
- I want you to bend me over your knee and spank me like the bad girl.
- This is going to be the greatest night of your life
- Getting ready for the best sex you’ve ever had
- Can you handle what I’m about to do to you?…
- I like when I have you in my mouth…
- Do you like that?
- Do you like when I do this?
- Will you fuck me?
- Yeah baby, fuck that pussy!
- Do it harder!
- Give me more!
- Give it to me like that…
- You can have it like that..
- You’re so big, so hot, so hard…
- Give me a piece of you now!
- Take me now!
- Let me lick more…
- I feel you cumming…
- It’s soo big..
- Say my name…
- Oh god yes…
- Yes, Yes, YES!!!
- Your cock feels so good inside me
- I am so wet…
- It feels soo good.
- Oh my gosh, you are so hard.
- I loved the things you did to me last night’
- I love the way your kisses taste…
- I love the way you sound when you do that thing you do
- I love the face you make when you orgasm…
- How beautiful you are, my darling!
- Oh you are so beautiful.
- I’m so horny for you…
- I want to kiss every inch of your body tonight…
- I’m going to give you more pleasure than you could even imagine…
- Get ready for great sex…
- Push it harder…harder…
- I’ve never had a lover like you before…
- You’re the best I’ve ever had…
- Do it to me the way you always do…
- You must have magic hands/lips because you’re doing something special…
- I want your body close to mine so you can feel my shivers…
- Get off when I do…
Here are some more dirty things to say
There is plenty more how to talk dirty to a guy examples but these ones are perfect to tweak a little and adjust to what your okay and happy saying, it’s suppose to be a bit dirty so don’t leave out too much, try him out..Whisper one of these sentences in his ear tonight..
Guys like to hear you talk about how big their penis is, reassure them that its big/ huge they will love you for it. (even if its not true)
Here is my top favorite that I use with my husband every night:
“If you stuck your dick in my mouth I’m going to suck it so hard”
“I wanna feel your come all over my face, dripping down my throat then I’m gonna lick you and suck your dick”.
“Don’t you just want to rail me, make love to me now, fuck me now” (you’ll choose if you want to just say make love if that’s more comfortable to start with)
“Don’t you just want to put your cock between my breasts, if your good I’ll let you stick it in my ass”
“I am so horny I just want you to fuck me right now”
“I want to motorboat my tits around your dick, I want to feel your throbbing cock between my thighs and let you come inside me baby”
“slap my ass, i have been a bad girl”
“your cock feels so big inside me tonight”
“I’m your little dirty whore” , ” deal to me”
” cum over my breasts”
” I want to feel your cock inside me”
These are more dirty talk examples & skills from Felicity Keith's language of Desire which can really come in useful to let you know the phrases and techniques that will help you dirty talking to your guy and really help you know how to talk dirty to a guy and how to talk dirty to a guy over text with confidence.